I wrote you this long eloquent loving post which would have made all your worries go away, and my computer logged out! (I get to claim elouqence solely b/c I also admit that I can't reproduce that eloquence ) Sorry that I haven't posted in awhile. I know that things look bleak for you right now. But they are not. I will not pretend to give you false hope. I will give you my prayers. You have been so strong through this. Jump up and down that OW is fading away. Ignore the rest of it. Just take the disenchantment with OW and realize that it should make you happy. That is communication about a current event in your H’s life. Any talk about the future. Well that is just talk, none of us can know what the future holds. Else none of us would be here. The anger, from my vast expereince, that is a normal MLC response. your H has moved from Replay and has been giving you indications that he is moving in and out of the tunnel, revisiting stages, that is normal. sucks, but if your H is truely a MLCer this is progress. Read the recipe for success