I'm going to disagree with the prevailing sentiment here and state that my W and I had a good marriage for most of the 5 years we were together. We were best friends, had a great sex life, were good parents together, agreed on the important issues in life, and shared a full spiritual life in Christ. We had a few problems in the months leading up to her A, but even then it came as a complete shock to me.

I'm not going to play sour grapes now and say that the M was bad just because she fell into sin at a weak moment.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)