I've honestly never thrown a punch at another human being in my life either. A few walls...youbetchya! However, with my H it's not my punch he needs to look out for, it's my left foot....remember I'm still able to kick a soccer ball the length of the field with no problemo! I can probably also remember how to do a round house kick too...but that's not my style.
I'll admit, right now I know the man has MAJOR intimacy issues...and for that I do feel sorry for him. But he's going to have to get over them if he wants to keep what he has now.
One thing I meant to mention earlier. We were talking about why he was on that website....and I flat out asked him. "Do you view me differently than you view those women. Do you think there are women you marry, and women you have sex with?" You know the whole whore/madonna thing. He got kind of quite on me with this and didn't really answer...so there's more to that one. I know our C will be asking him that one. I'll revisit it again when we have more time to talk about it.
I know there's going to be more to come. I'm just hoping that somehow we survive the schrapnel.
