Lass,
Had he been trying to spin this as something fairly innocent? I was under the impression that he was taking full responsibility for it.
Or are you saying that he just didn't grasp the impact of it?

I'm glad to hear about the intensive counseling. I wish him the best.

I can fully understand the laser eyes. I think every female on this board had a "I hate men" day, on the day you found out.

xo