You know there's a big part of me that really wants to make him think about this stuff...fact is I can't "make" him do anything.....but I can use my tools to get his brain working in ways he didn't expect.
Just today we were talking on the phone about this...and my obvious concerns. I didn't feel over the last couple of days that the "how would you feel if I did this to you" schpeel was really effective. So I put a spin on it today that shut him up and made him go "Oh my God...I didn't think of that." I'll follow up on that later with him after he's had some time to mull it around.
What I said to him was...."What if you had come across my profile offering to meet up with people and viewed naked pictures of me on there while you were cruising the profiles? How would that have made you feel? Would you have thought what I was doing was "innocent"?"
Keep in mind folks...there were no pictures of him online (thank God for small favors on that one.)
I believe that small statment really shot through him....because honestly, it didn't occur to him that "I" would do that. Of course I haven't, but it was an effective statement if I do say so myself.
