Thanks, that does help to hear. I do know people survive this...and I have actually joined another BB where that's what they concentrate on at survivinginfidelity.com it was started by someone else inspired by this site.
My C was encouraging that we could get through this too. Of course she said that's providing he's willing to be completely open with me...and of course her in private....AND that he's willing to do whatever it takes for me to feel "safe" again in this R...i.e. being siamese twins.
Her impression right now is that he is very likely to move forward from here and do what it takes....but only time will really tell on this.
So...as I've told him right now I'm taking it one minute, one hour, one day....at a time. Each time I think about what he's done I have to make a concious decision to keep trying.
GEL
Oh & PS....one thing he hasn't done while we've been together is go to church. He used to go to church every Sunday when we were dating.....as many of you know, I'm not a churchgoer. I suggested this morning that we start attending.
