"She gave me "After the Affair" to read, I'll be starting on it tonight providing my migrane subsides enough to let me read it."
You might also try Surviving an Affair, the one that NOPkins suggested for me. It is by Harley, the same guy who does His Needs, Her Needs. HN/HN has some stuff on affairs too, but it doesn't really apply to your situation. Maybe NOPkins can chime in on whether SAA would be appropriate for GEL's situation.
Still wishing you well. Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
