"She believes that seeing my pain has more affect on him than most things would. Guys...is that true?"

Yes! Assuming he has feelings for you that are strong enough to overcome his personality disorder. One of the most moving things I ever experienced was my W laying on the bed sobbing uncontrollably after being told that she was miscarrying our first child. All she could say for days was "what's wrong with me?" My heart broke. Of course, I am an over-sensitive guy, so my perspective on this may not be the most helpful.

Chrome


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack