I'd just like to say kudos to you, I think you handled yourself very well. You've got some hard boundaries out there, and that is the only way your M has a chance. Karen is right, now you know it wasn't you. There wasn't something wrong with you or something you were doing that was preventing your H from connecting with you physically. The problem lies with him. Knowing the problem is the first step to fixing it. Just remember though that unless he decides in his heart to fix it, it won't get fixed. And sometimes we all need a push to change ourselves. Maybe this event will have a hidden blessing, as crazy as that sounds. It will finally be the catalyst to make him change himself, into a better husband, into the kind of husband you deserve to have.
Best wishes, stay strong. You deserve to be treated well, remember that.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
