I agree with HP. It sounds like he may have intense guilt about sexuality so that he cannot enjoy it with a "good woman" but must seek out the darker encounters. He needs to get help to see that a normal sexual relationship with his wife is something joyous not something to feel guilty about. Was he sexually abused as a child? If not, do you know of any defining moments that would cause him ti intertwine sex with guilt?
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
