BF,

I appreciate what you are saying. At this time, I'm not willing to take my son out of the home....it's what he knows, it's where he's comfortable. I have a sitter lined up for tonight though that he is going to stay with....so he can play with her kids.

You said exactly something I already said to him, and that I'm going to reiterate to him tonight. I don't deserve this treatment. I have bent over backwards trying to meet his needs only to be lied to time and time again. It stops NOW! If I don't believe it has stopped....this M will end. I will not put up with this now that I know about it.....if I did, I would be a doormat.

Depending on how tonight goes will depend upon whether I ask him to stay elsewhere for awhile or not. I do feel I need to hear him out now that he knows....he can no longer deny this, there's nowhere else to run.

"IF" we are going to recover from this, this behavior has to stop and the energy he's been wasting on that website has to be focused on US.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!