I can't believe it. Like others say, it doesn't make any sense. You must be feeling really betrayed/hurt/low/etc. right now. I cannot imagine.
You MUST know that it isn't you. You are a talented, witty, intelligent, charming person. Something is seriously messed up in your H for him to do this. There is absolutely no way you are at fault for this, or probably that you could have done anything to prevent it.
Try to gather your wits as best you can. You are one of the most rock steady women I know, so I'm confident you can do it. Remember Talking Point 3 from the Self-Esteem thread. DO NOT ACCEPT BAD TREATMENT FROM OTHERS. This qualifies as well as anything I have ever heard.
I'm holding my breath here now in sympathy for you. I can't imagine any way that the upcoming confrontation will be easy, but I wish it to be as smooth as possible.
Please be well. Praying for you ... hard
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
