Thanks always,

I think I lurk on this board, hoping, praying that there is some magic tip that I haven't tried that will re-rescue my marriage.

I should know better.

All of your tips are great, and what's better is that I've already done some of the footwork on this stuff from the last go-round.

The self-pity is pretty crippling however and I may not need my wife, but I sure feel like I need my best friend who just happens to be my wife.

I can and will make it through this (I just wanted to write that down).