John_p you always challenge me with your questions...but as Betsey mentioned before I think that's what makes you be able to help me see past or even see some things that I never would have been able to and vice versa. I'll do my best here for you, but I need some more time to think it through. You're challenging me with a question I hadn't even asked myself yet...or maybe I had asked, but I just hadn't answered it. I promise I'll be back tonight after I've thought it through.
Nickel
"The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy."