HD and LD are relative in your own relationship, and it doesn't matter how much or how little someone else is getting. If you aren't gettin enough, or your tired of getting chased around the bedroom then there is a libido imbalance in your R, which you and your W have to deal with in some way. We're all here because the bunch of us are unbalanced too. Brian, talk to her, let her know the pain you are feeling. Until she knows how much pain you are in, things won't change. The other thing is, don't expect to change her, instead you need to find the things in you that might be making you less desirable to her and change yourself and make yourself grow. If you are lucky, she'll grow to keep up with you.