We had a bit of that talk, but I did not push it. From what I remember, she does not want the hassel of having the kids along and stressing about them as well as the ever present family drama on her side of the family.
It will be her Father and sister travelling with her. My W does her grieving alone, she tells herself that she needs nobody but yet will lean heavily on her girlfriends. So to her it is a hassel to pack up all three kids, get a hotel, drive 3.5 hours, do a service, and then drive home, this after she gets back from her business trip. It is easier to just rely of F4W to hold the fort four another 4 days and lonely nights, because I am SuperDad!
Opps, sarcasm coming through.
I offered and said WE (notice not me) want to be there for you. She said thanks but this is easier. SO it is what it is and I will do my support via the phone.
Heck, I am not going to fret on it. I am here, she can choose to have me as her emotional support or family support, wither way I am her support.
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
