My take right now, and slap me if I am wrong , is I need to focus completely in an opposite way right now. Not towards the overt efforts (aka SEE WHAT I AM DOING W? NOW WHAT ARE YOU DOING?) and just be a husband in my marriage that loves my wife.
Continue as nothing is wrong and just be me, the caring husband I am!
At least that is where I am this minute in the univers, hold your breath and I am sure it will change LOL
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!