What is so nice is that Barney is offering to give me back rubs (which I love) and is helping me with things around the house (which I love, then I have more time with my family).

Bottom line...Barney is a really great guy when he gets "IT".

I was thinking today about how STUPID it is not to have sex. I just decide that I am going to get in the mood, if I am not. All the time wasted in arguing, posting, and etc. if put into sex...well, ha ha there are a lot more hours in my day. Plus then, sex is way more enjoyable than being upset with each other! Go figure.

I am still getting used to being back "in the saddle" and have some hurts that I am working through. But they are only emotions to work through, not my belief of who I know my H to be. So I am acting on my belief in him and not in past hurt feelings...I know that in a bit of time, those will all be ok.

It is great to have my marriage back again and even better! I talk about more things now about sex and I'll get better at it too!

Nicegal ...I switched to this happy face because it looked more "sexy" and like a little icon who has gotten it.