This is pretty much the same post I put over on Barney's thread. I"ve been posting over there, but for the sake of clarity on this thread I thought I'd post this over here too.

Barney and Nicegal are working through issues and are gettin'together...sexually. He's told me it was "great"....I told him what I thought of it too and tried to be more descriptive for him..in essence "great"..true!

We've also discussed various things about O's that was insightful...Barney said..we should start a thread on that subject! We'll see if ole' Barn wants to start it and I"ll chime in.

Why I am posting here now, I have no idea...it is one of the busiest weeks! Below is a copy of what I wrote over on Barney's thread...earlier...
At Barney's suggestion and my agreement we have scheduled sex. With our lifestyle at this point, it is necessary. We are both happy with this arrangement.

ON Thursday morning we have a quickie...well, I was up from 2-5 a.m. (tonight too...this happens once every 2 or 3 months for about 2 or 3 nights..I don't fight it...I'll take my melatonin tomorrow before I got to bed though). Anyway, then one of our kids couldn't sleep and I was up with him for an hour...he kept begging to go in our bed...after an hour I gave in.

Barney was understanding of it. He saw my effort and knows our kids sometimes.

Well..what I did differently right away after we both laughed about what happened..I told him to drop the kids off at school and come back for a quickie...so we did!

Really puts a spring in your step for the day!

I know that this action shows him I love him, I want him, and I want a great R with him. I know that doing this sort of thing even when it is tough to fulfill will demonstrate my change of heart.

I know people mostly tell about the challenges here. It is just easy for me not to post good stuff that might encourage someone else. But, ha ha I'm up anyway at 4:30 a.m.! Although, I'm going back to sleep now for another 2 hours!

I know that this is only 2 weeks. But, I'll keep posting, maybe ole' Barn will add a few comments..to let you know how we are doing.

Nicegal