Chrissy,

You should tell your H that he should join in! Tell him about us! ha ha The only way things get better is for the 2 people invovled to do so....to really hear the other person...more than being heard.

That was my biggest issue. I thought I was MOSTLY right in our marriage. But when I considered that maybe my H might have a point and listened to him and tried to see his POV. That is when changes started happening.

And when change in people happens...it can be very painful! Most withdraw from it because they don't want to face it. But in the end it is much better!

Nicegal