I guess I'm not making myself clear on this thread...Romance is no longer a driving force for me. I appreciate it....but I've learned to value other things about Barney that are much more important in the sceme of life: being a good dad, providing for my family, honesty, working hard...sex & romance are much easier to work out than the foundational issues that hold a marriage together for life.
He doesn't have to romance me to get me in the mood...if he does that's great but I'm not obsessing about it.
BArney and I had lunch and discussed many things today. It was a great honest, heart to heart conversation. We are open to each other and ready to come together for sex.
