I really quit telling my age 3 years ago, when I was 45!
Yes, I started letting go of some unrealistic expectations over the past number of years and have been happier as a result. I wish I'd have seen it sooner! I guess that change often doesn't happen until we are in enough pain to force us into it. I'm remembering that now and am so much more open to change!!!!!!!!
Somehow settling that comes as a result of experience and age helps to ease the pain of wrinkles and cellulite!
Barney and I have not been having sex for several months. At his request. I guess it is the all or nothing thinking that he is struggling with as he's talked about in his story.
We'd worked some things out...or so I thought. At that point(several months back) Sex was 2-3 times a week...it didn't last long as there were underlying issues that apparently needed resolution.
