My husband is the HDS! I don't get it either! No response whatsoever after 3 months of what I felt were some sparks happening in the R. I thought it would be safe to at least initiate kissing! I was devastated...understatement!
I guess he had too many years of not enough sex that now he doesn't want it anymore...that is sure not what I wanted!
It has thrown me into a tailspin the past week and I"m just trying to keep putting one foot in front of the other doing the right thing....it really dented my motivation...
I'm just not a depressed type person and so I am just purposing to snap out of this today. I have to.