If my wife ever laid down on top of me in a hotel and started to kiss me.. I don't know if I would respond either.... Why? BEACSUE I WOULD HAVE PASSED OUT RIGHT THERE FROM SHOCK! I'd be out cold!
Coming from the mind of a HD person.. It's cool to see the progress you are making, in feeling better about yourself, in excercizing, and even initiating. Keep at it! I wish your husband would respond more, I just don't get the guys who have their wives asking for intimacy and then not reacting. Makes no sense to us HD guys!