Thanks and I agree. I broke out of enmeshement when I was D. Oddly enough, XH did not. He switched the parent-child extreme enmeshment in our old M with parent-child extreme enmeshment in a new R. He simply switched from being the child to being the parent. My point is that even D does not guarantee a move away from enmeshement. Why? Because enmeshement has to do with one's integrity of self, not the current R one is in.
