I have no desire to enter into this fray. I am with HP on this one. I, too, adhere to the Dr. Laura style of relating to my mate. What that gets me is a guy who thinks everything is pretty good - even when it is bad or marginal. The day I withold sex the minions in hell would be ice skating. How would the mate of an HD know this - through experience, through trust, through intimate knowlege of his mate.
My only advice to you is to consider the fact that several people on this thread held a similar view that you are angry toward women in general, too general in many areas, sometimes antagonistic on this thread. When several people tell you the same/similar things just think carefully about whether or not they could be right and whether or not those things could be hurting your M.
