Quote: I thought you meant that you have set boundaries of withholding sex as a means to make yourself feel better.
Wow, I don't even know how to reply to this!
Nope, if you read my thread you will know that withholding sexually has never been of interest to me. In fact, I have often lamented that I have no "leverage" where MrH is concerned because I do not possess anything that he craves, with the exception of my good mood. He craves my good mood like other men crave women. You could say he's GoodMoodWhipped.
You did know that I was HD, right? I can't imagine that you thought an HDW would withhold for ANY reason!