Re cobra But I don’t know that I’ve ever harassed anyone to the point I’ve seen MrsNOP do.
Why do you think Mrs NOP is harassing you? She has a different POV from what I am reading. Some people have strong beliefs in sertain areas. Does that make you or her wrong? For her to be your friend long term, maybe, but this forum is to share things that work and support each other when we are not feeling loved enough by our respective spouses.

Maybe i have been to a few too many AA type meetings ( I had to take the deliquent boys) and heard "take what you can use and leave the rest behind." I don't agree with anyone 100% of the time but I don't tell anyone how their actions might feel like they are yanking my chain to keep things stired up.

I know you both have things to contribute to the forum and different POV's, so please back off from the harrassing comments.

Cobra, you have strong opinions in this thread about Women, Feminism and the Impact on Marriage. I could see your point especially with someone like how Hairdog describes his W and you describe your W. I am not there to observe your situation. I don't see Mrs. NOP in that light. Yes, she has strong opinions about some things.

Lou