I see you saying that the male way of feeling and needing is valid. but the females isnt. thats what I get from your posts. Mrs. nop is saying a womans is just as valid.
I don’t know where you get this impression, possibly from these strung out debates over nothing. My position is nothing like this at all. I am saying both men and women’s opinions, reactions and needs for affirmation are valid. But when women use their upset feelings to trigger a fix from the man, it is a form of control and it is wrong. If a man does the same, then he is wrong too.
But women don’t seem to worry about men’s feelings so much. They tend to worry whether the man is happy with her, wanting her. This is an indirect concern for the man’s feelings, only as much as it relates to the women.
Not all women are like this, but I believe many are.
