Example of a woman who diminishes a man's "feelings"? Have you read ANY of my posts here? Ms. Hdog constantly diminishes my feelings as merely an expression of the toxic effect of testosterone on my body. "You say you're sad/frustrated/ angry/upset/lonely because you and I don't have a physical relationship, or because I haven't kissed you in two weeks, or because I recoil at your touch? You're just pissed because you're not getting laid." And she follows with a hundred examples of how that is all physiological, and that what she is feeling at the moment is what is REALLY a FEELING.
So I rarely bother trying to tell her how I "feel" at the moment because, to her, it's only the testosterone talking.
And Ms. Nop: Thanks for the "fixer" website. Velly interesting.