I think that Happy Giant should consider your assessment of his situation. Ours was similar. Happy is "doing the right thing" toward his wife but she isn't listening to him. I agree with Dr. Laura and others...if a woman does that...and has SEX, SEX, SEX...cooks and doesn't nag...she'll basically have a happy man and IF he has character and is LOVING...he'll give back to her all he knows..so much qualifing to do here..cause some men may not know what to do...wow...I"m speaking from LDW..HDH experience ONLY.
Happy...I'm just trying to say that you may not get the attention of your wife to HEAR you by treating her like the princess that you are. I don't mean you should treat you badly...and PLEASE don't do what WE DID...HELL!!!
But, you do have to do something to get her attention. AND...perhaps you should consider what Cobra said about your fear of not pleasing her. YOu are a pleaser it sounds like (which is a very good thing!) but the negative side of the pleaser is that they get walked on....I know from experience.
I think there are constructive ways to change what you are doing to get her to HEAR the SERIOUSNESS of it! If she loves you and REALLY HEARS that it is serious....she'll do something. It is that getting of her attention!
