You have it backwards. Dr. Larua's book is intended only for LD women that are trying to change themselves and at the same time they are motivating their men to change into better husbands. What Dr. Laura is doing is cutting right to the chase. Lets compare this to the advice we get on here and from many other books about the LD female HD male problem that many of us have:
Step 1: Man should GAL, Make himself more confident, essentially MAKE HIMSELF MORE APPEALING. Step 2: Woman then must make effort to rediscover her sexuality.
What Dr. Laura is saying is that the only way this works is to start with step 2, and then step one will result.
Why? Because of several things, but mostly because men are simple, women are complex. Men are EASY to motivate because of testosterone. We are ADDICTED to it, we will do anything to satisfy our urges. There is nothing comparable to this in females. Think about this, when I try to motivate my wife, it's like I am trying to light a fire with a heating blanket. But if she trys to motivate me, she just has to make a sexual suggestion and I am turned into a 1200 degree blow torch (she does not even have to touch me)! So in terms of who can motivate whom, it is not even a contest, women have 90% of the power to create change.
But you will also notice in her writings that men have asked her when she was going to write the book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Women". Her response, "Why? That process does not work!" She is right. See steps one and two above, success is not found in step 1, it is ONLY found after step 2. Step one is only there to try and help motivate the women to take step 2. Until they complete step 2, us guys are just spinning our wheels.
