I too agree with many of Cobra and Dr Laura's points. However, it is a generalization. For many men on this board it must riing very true and I have known women like this. However, for a lot of the ladies on this board it is difficult to listen to because we would happily do just as Dr. Laura asks but our H' s aren't interested in that. What are they interested in? Sometimes it seems we can figure it out for a short window of time and sometimes not. I would love it if I had such a formula for my H.
