My dear Choc,
Thank you for the reply. I'm sure you are right.

The thing that hangs me up is that my H is definitely a man's man. His thought process is in no way feminine. So when I read things like that I wonder why it doesn't apply to us. Then again, I am a very feminine person in demeanor and personality and do not fit the General Observation that floats around about women.

Everyone's different I suppose.