Quote: Feed them. Admire them. Make love to them. And they will move MOUNTAINS to make you happy.
I am this wife.
I am not sure where the disconnect is, wrt my marriage, but I can tell you that my H does not move mountains for me. He loves me, deeply, I know that and am certain of it.
But his attitude is very much that he will get to me when he can. He does not like to go to great effort for me.
I don't understand this and am, frankly, perplexed about the whole thing.