I agree with Imdi. These WAH's exibit some very immature and self-destructive behavior; we do not have to approve. I read how a lot of spouses that have their H's living at home end up telling them to move out, just so they can gain back some respect. It's things like this that we need to remember. We can't let these WAH's belittle us. I think you did really well, c1t. Go with your gut. Stand up for yourself. I have learned in the last few months how important it is to maintain respect.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
