My H rang me today wanting me to check flights for him to go back to Thailand in July....
I am not sure whether I have done right or wrong but I put my put down... I said to him
'going to Thailand was an experience for you and 1 I am prepared to accept. But going again, whilst we are both testing the water with each other ( he has said this) is really taking the p**s at bit. If come July things are not working with me and you and we have not move forward at all, then fair enough, get a last minute flight. but to plan it now whilst we are trying to work things out is totally unfair'...
What does anyone think?? I just felt that I had to stand my ground on this one. It is something i would not be prepared to accept whilst we are trying to get on again...
I know the theory is not to put pressure on them and try and tell them what to do , but I felt so strongly about this that I had to tell my H...
I do think he is trying to see how far he can push me...
