yes it defintely does help... I feel bit crap at moment though, becuase before my H went to Thailand he was making a real effort, and ringing and texting me all the time to see how me and our D was... Since he as been back he has been a bit distant... hardly any texts or calls this week...
I am seeing him tonight - I am going out with my friends but meeting up with him later and stopping at his house so I am just trying to push it to 1 side, otherwise I will end up getting mad at him and spoiling what could be a good night!!
I think he just has a case of holiday blues at the moment... plus his OW has cooled things off with him coz she said she did not beleive he just went to Thailand with his mates for sun, sand and drink!!! ( bout time she opended her eyes, sorry but could not resist saying that!)
But this is when if I am feeling low i could think to myself - ' why does my H blow hot and cold as and when it suits him'....
But what I need to do is just ignore it......pretend he is no different as this will bring him out of it quicker then making an issue out of it with him...
