Hey c1t-
Just wanted to thank you for your feedback on my sitch. I can also understand your feeling where most days you feel okay. Often that is how i feel, except for recently, but things have taken a turn for the worse.

It seems like you have a good outlook and are no longer allowing your life to revolve around your H's statements and actions. I am hoping that one day i will be able to do that as well.

I think you have a BF - do you think that having him in your life helped you get to the stage where you are at now? Not that i want to run out and meet someone, i am just wondering that after my D is final, and if i meet someone, will that help in my healing process. I don't know...just thinking out loud, so to speak.