Yeah the million dollar question eh?? To be honest most of the time I am ok - and this is because I have now got past that stage and do have a full life without my H... Just the odd day when I could scream still and let it all out... I think at the moment I do not feel like my H is taking advantage of me becuase I am going out and doing what I want... My life now does not revolve around him... i fit him in when it suits me.... If the day comes when I feel myself backsliding and changing things for him then that is when I will change things and if needbe end the situ with him...
I know everybody has different views on this site with regards to their partners and OW or OM... But for me, at the moment its not making me depressed or miserable. At the moment i am just fitting my H into my life as and when it suits me... Yes I want more from him, but I can wait and enjoy myself in the process..
Hope this makes sense, As long as me and H are getting on, and the past few months we have got on better than ever, each week he gets closer to me and thats not from me pushing - its totally from him on his own, making his own decisions...
