Will my H EVER be ready to settle down again, or does he just want to play the field for the rest of his life???
That is the million dollar question my friend. My exH was the same way...from one to the next, sometimes juggling several at the same time. We've been D for 6yrs now and honestly I see no end in sight for him. He is living with his latest GF and from what I hear through the grapeviine, no signs of changing. Too bad, I really like his GF.
But what's more important is what are you willing to live with? A man who will do this to you, throw it in your face as he did recently? My exH used to try and secure my position with him by telling me that no one else would want me because I had a child. I found that my self-esteem, worth whatever you want to call it was at an all time low back then. I had friends tell me, You'll know when you've had enough. I had MFs that sat me down one day and made my eyes litterally flutter open to the lifestyle that I had come to know. One day I snapped, I was done and that was the end of that. This is your life...what are you willing to accept here? He disregard for your feelings appear to be an attempt to humiliate and control. Is that what you want the rest of your life?
