I am torn at the moment between advice I am getting between friends and that I am reading in books...
Alot of the advice is - dont put up with your H if he is sleeping with OW... dont continue to sleep with him yourself...you are giving in to him....stop the contact with him until he is ready to comit?????
But like a lot of posts on here....I dont want to stop seeing my H.... I have a good seperate life away from my H where i go out with friends alot, still have contact with my BF...Yes my goal is to get back with my H, but at the moment I dont have a real issue with how things are progressing...
These past 2 months my H and i have started getting on so much better, we talk more, have a laugh more, and he has started to do things he said he would never do again... like come and stay night at my house...
So I tend to think to myself if its working then why change it????
ok - some people might think my H is not being respectful to me by sleeping with me and OW, and that to gain his respect I should end it with him until he comits to me only ,but at the end of the day I dont think this is the answer.... How can I stop contact with him on the basis of seeing OW, when at the end of the day I still have a BF??
