Well you will never beleive what has happened today?? My H rang me - going off his head, accusing me of all sorts!! Said he had heard some rumours that I had been with someone else when I had been out with my friends!! WHAT!!! I told him I had'nt, which is the TRUTH but he didnt beleive me... told me i was lying and that he would find out the truth himself etc etc Told me if he found out I was lying he would divorce me!!!
I am gobsmacked!!
My first reaction was - how the hell can you have a go at me for a rumour when look at what you have been doing !!
So we did argue quite a bit over the phone about it... He got my back up and I just defended myself
Anyway, have calmed down a bit now and been thinking about it...
Why is he like this and so jealous???
He obviously still cares but why does he choose not to beleive me all the time?? It does not matter what i say to him its like he wants to beleive I am lying to him.. maybe this reduces the guilt he feels.. I dont know..
But what can I do when i am not lying. I told him the truth and he does not want to beleive me so what can I do??? It is so frustrating ...
He was saying things to me like - I have seen a difference in you since I got back. You have changed your hair, you are going out with your friends alot more, you dont seem as bothered about us.........so that to him must been i have some hidden agenda, which in his mind must be somebody else apart from my BF???
He does not realise the only hidden agenda i have is Divorce busting... I have taken a step back since he got back from Thailand which I have had to do for my own sanity... He sees this as though I am hiding something...
