My H and I split up 2 years ago. Have 2 year old daughter who was 10 months at time. Number of reasons, we argued, strain of having child, both changed jobs, think my H was having a bit of a MLC and to be honest i was nightmare to live with as sufering from bit of baby blues as well. He moved out and for 1 year I DB. Started to work, he came round all time and even started stopping 3/4 nights a week. I then found out he been seeing OW. I went mad. he supposedly ended it!! He ended up moving back in but it was all wrong. He felt under pressure to move back from me. and I knew he was still seeing OWomen so just resented him all the time. In end i gave up and went out 1 night and met someone else. H moved out... For 1st 2-3 months of seeing my BF I was still having physical relationship with my H. We both could not let go.. Then we fell out and for 2 months my H and i never spoke unless it was about our daughter.. I fell in love with my BF and was very happy.. For the last 2- months the honeymoon period with my BF has worn off, and at same time my H started to instigate things between us again. I started relationship with H again but continued to see BF. At Xmas my H and I spent alot of time together which was really good and he even started talking about whether there was a chance we could try again... BUT that is as far as we have got. My H will not give up OWomen ( he is always seeing someone different) at the moment. He hates me having a BF but knows he cannot stop me unless he gives me more commitment which he wont..
So that is my mess at the moment. I feel like my H has come back and dangled the carrot in front of me but then is not prepared to go any further at the moment..
