Sorry to hijack here. I don't have much to say, but am in the same situation. I think I see a lot of tangible points in what underdog wrote. I'm in a point right now where I am feeling sorry for myself because the reconnection phase is really dragging......and I am very impatient. Underdog, thanks for pointing out about working on the inside. I've been so busy working on my exterior, that I have neglected what is inside!!