well, to make that balance easier to achieve and maintain, there is detaching. I think that's the main purpose of it - that you detach and become less worried and less concerned about how and when the situation unfolds and what's going to be the outcome of it. I suggest you trust the situation. Trust as best as you can that this is not the end of the road or deadend, but rather a vehicle, a transition that will bring new and better opportunities to grow, to learn and to develop, so that you'll be happier in the end, if you only trust. Stop trying to make things heppen - let them happen, let them unfold and most likely surprise you. The outscome might be better than you have ever imagined, but you need to get out of your own way. Honestly, a year ago you wouldn't have predicted what you are in now (forgive me if I;m wrong). SO how do you know and how can you predict what's going to happen and what you'll feel a year from now? (more misery? No, wrong answer)
Our world is not what it is, it's what we are. Hence, the negativity pattern has to go, I'm sorry for being that strict. But it's true: by being negative we send wrong vibrations to the Universe, so to speak. To be clearer, I guess you would agree that whatever we focus our energy on, expands. Right now you're focusing on the negatives. I wonder why they persist, hmmm..
To get through the darkest period of the night, act as if it is already morning.
The Talmud
