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It's totally frustrating because my W keeps insinuating that she's ending things with him but I see so much evidence to the contrary



Okay, here's the kicker, my W has not insinuated, she has flat out told me that she said to him the other night that she was working this M out. Now, this is after she gave him his V-day gift and all.....and she continues to talk to him and such since then. IMHO, that's really not ending it, but rather putting things on hold there just in case in doesn't work out here.....

And yes, I guess it is better than the alternatives...its like Oldtimer told us the other day GH, it is a CHOICE. We have chosen to accept this and the sh*t that goes with it in the hopes that we can save it. So....there we go.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu