You sound like you're doing great. Keep it up. It's natural to slip here and there. Like you said, it's all in the overall handling of the situation that matters. I think you did fine. It was very similar to my slip on V-day. No biggie.
Insight please. How is it that they can seemingly rejoin our lives, even put some amount of effort into it, and still carry on in some way with the OM? Did you do that? What is/was the reasoning behind it? Fear of losing the OP? Fear of the M failing to deliver for you?
It was almost easier to understand when my W had virtually no contact with me and almost nothing to say. Now she acts like our life is just going on business (well, no BUSINESS) as usual. Is this her way of testing the waters?
I am having a really hard time with this, as my thread can attest to. Our W's seem to understand what they are doing is wrong yet still do it.
Suppose we just chalk it up to the addiction factor.
Oh, and tell the OM I happy birthday and I hope he has at least 1 more...or not...ouch, that was mean. Sorry. Didn't really mean that...lol.
