Wow Rob, our W's are REALLY similar. My W has taken to "resting" a lot in the early evening and I have taken up the slack. She has also mentioned that she is not pulling her weight with the boys and notices how much we do things together. She hasn't said anything about it yet but...
I think you are doing GREAT! You really are. Please keep this going! I know Tim and I both have had a few days like this and then it kinda crashed. DON'T let that happen. Make it a permanent change!