Yeah, I can really see the value in it, as long as I keep with my goals, which I intend to do at all costs, I should be good to go.
Believe me, I have felt used like a doormat, but then again I keep telling myself that I am a person who values committment to family and, as a result, I am a good person (okay, some esteem building there, but there are so many people who would just give up in our sitches...it really says a lot about us).
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu